Who should I talk to before using a large inheritance?

The situation is that I recently received an inheritance after losing a close relative. As things stand, the money is still sitting in a bank account while I sort out taxes, debt, retirement savings, and a few near term goals. As things stand, I do not want grief or pressure from family to push me into a fast decision. I am trying to fit this into a broader financial plan rather than treat it as an isolated product or account question.