Should I name my oldest child as executor?

Question

I have three adult children and need to choose an executor. My oldest is responsible and organized, but lives across the country and has a demanding job. I have always heard that the oldest child should be executor, but that feels like a family tradition rather than a legal rule.

Soradin · Accepted Answer

Age alone is not the best test because organization, reliability, location, time, and family dynamics matter more. As part of the legal review, an executor gathers assets, protects property, gives required notices, handles valid debts and taxes, keeps records, and distributes the estate under the will and court rules. In the estate planning context, the role can take months and may require professional help. Save copies alongside your other important paperwork, and make sure the right people know where to find them.

Should I name my oldest child as executor?

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